For a very long time
after I graduated, I desperately wanted a job. Actually at that time I needed
one too- for financial and emotional reasons. But as things happen, I could not
get any job. In that time I managed to keep afloat professionally and
personally.... And right at the time when I did not need the job, I got one. Of
course, I wanted it- very badly so I jumped into it. It made me happy for
exactly 5 days. After that I kept hearing ‘this is a job not a career’...’this
is a career not a life’......’this is work not passion’. The day I understood
what all these platitudes meant I gave my notice and quit....and escaped the
trap called ‘career’.
For the last 50 years,
men and women, boys and girls have been brought up on the myth of a ‘career’.
The word evokes such a mix of accomplishment, status, affluence and sheer
snobbery that a majority fall for it. Everybody is supposed to decide and
understand something called their ‘identity’ and stick to it. Young women with
little babies become depressed because they have been unceremoniously shut out
of their ‘career’. Kareena gets a thumbs up because she does not let motherhood
interfere with her career. Men are expected to relocate to wherever their jobs
are because they have a career to make. This is not a gender issue at
all....the myth affects all who are naive enough to be drawn into it.
Gender equality is the
phrase used to fire young women into giving up everything in the service of
industry. Men are expected to settle for no less than 16 hours of work and
aspirations to be the CEO. So even if some people would rather choose
needlework or to spend time with family, they are made to feel stupid about
these choices. To assuage their guilt we invent childcare centres with cctv
camera, quality time parenting, certified elder care manpower, spouse- dating and
art exhibitions. Actually all these amount to nothing if you are doing it just
to further your career.
A career is meant only
for three categories of people- people who are competitive by nature need it to
remain sane. People who have poor social and financial support need it to make
something of their lives. And a third category is people who have nothing else
in their life to look forward to....this last category need career only for a
while though. All other folks should look at education only as a means to acquire
the wherewithal to do what they like so that it can start paying them. Then
proceed to work as few hours as possible working to earn money and rest of it
to enjoy the work. One must be able to cut down on the working hours to be able
to do anything that one needs to do or wants to do....including
non-remunerative tasks like being with one’s children and parents, or doing
embroidery or painting one’s bicycle.
A
person without a career could be a lucky person.....for this person has a life