Whenever my classmates hear that I practice in the Western suburb of Mumbai, they are keen to know which celebrities I have treated. This is because most of the Bollywood live and work in the Western Suburbs of Mumbai and there is a higher than usual probability of any doctor encountering one as a patient.
Well the first point is: I have to disappoint my classmates as I cannot name any patient due to my very uncompromising stance on patient confidentiality. Secondly, they get disappointed to know that famous people are not very different from 'non famous' patients in any way. Like all other groups 70% are just usual people who need treatment while 30% are unnecessarily troublesome. And that they suffer from much the same illnesses, side effects and concerns.
I prefer not to treat famous clients generally. The main problem is: my time-management goes for a complete toss. Famous clients have round the clock comitments and they though they try hard to maintain control- sadly it is never possible. So the 6 o clock appointment becomes 7, then 8 then 9 and so on. Then for being able to accomodate their crazy schedules I have to reschedule other appointments- this I hate doing as I value all my patients equally. Well some famous folks feel very bad- and as they feel that everything can be set right by money and that is one thing they have in plenty- they try to pay the therapist an 'hourly charge'. But really its not about the money- the genuine therapist is also like a performer- I set an agenda for consultation and am eager to do it at assigned time. Waiting is like a 'false- start'- it causes me to lose the sharpness and interest in intervention.
Some famous people are pitiably foolish. They want their doctors and therapists to be in awe of them and wait at their beck and call. But this is very counter productive as medicine is a profession which requires human judgment based on objectivity. Maybe the famous person gets easy access to the therapist, can bully the therapist- but this causes subtle and sure harm. So we read about doctors who have been prescribing ever higher doses of sleeping pills because patient demanded, or got into relationships with patients because they were not able to assert their limits. The danger of thinking famous people are different is very real- both for patients and their doctors.
Well the first point is: I have to disappoint my classmates as I cannot name any patient due to my very uncompromising stance on patient confidentiality. Secondly, they get disappointed to know that famous people are not very different from 'non famous' patients in any way. Like all other groups 70% are just usual people who need treatment while 30% are unnecessarily troublesome. And that they suffer from much the same illnesses, side effects and concerns.
I prefer not to treat famous clients generally. The main problem is: my time-management goes for a complete toss. Famous clients have round the clock comitments and they though they try hard to maintain control- sadly it is never possible. So the 6 o clock appointment becomes 7, then 8 then 9 and so on. Then for being able to accomodate their crazy schedules I have to reschedule other appointments- this I hate doing as I value all my patients equally. Well some famous folks feel very bad- and as they feel that everything can be set right by money and that is one thing they have in plenty- they try to pay the therapist an 'hourly charge'. But really its not about the money- the genuine therapist is also like a performer- I set an agenda for consultation and am eager to do it at assigned time. Waiting is like a 'false- start'- it causes me to lose the sharpness and interest in intervention.
Some famous people are pitiably foolish. They want their doctors and therapists to be in awe of them and wait at their beck and call. But this is very counter productive as medicine is a profession which requires human judgment based on objectivity. Maybe the famous person gets easy access to the therapist, can bully the therapist- but this causes subtle and sure harm. So we read about doctors who have been prescribing ever higher doses of sleeping pills because patient demanded, or got into relationships with patients because they were not able to assert their limits. The danger of thinking famous people are different is very real- both for patients and their doctors.
